anima and animus in relationships

And ah, we we wanna look at it not in a masculine like male male characteristic, but more of a energy then and and, um and this force in us, If we don’t, we don’t do our shadow work. spk_0:   11:38So, you know, one of things young talked about was that it’s, um it’s a force that’s autonomous, which means that it has kind of a life of its own. So now you’re entering the realm of the collective unconscious, and there’s where the the animus is. And we teach that one of our other programs? Stage 3: Female as Supportive Partner: He wants her to be caring loving wife who he provides for. Shadow projections map in the ego level of anxious avoidant attachment styles and for avoidant or ambivalent females. We explain the power of these archetypes to take … Does anima animus play out in the child tension with a parent? And a coach who knows step coaching could really help a client instead of like, Oh, yeah, he’s a jerk. Well, here’s the thing. spk_1:   59:28There might be that it depends on how it plays out, right? It’s part of your psyche that you have already. You’re gonna tell me what to do? OK, that’s fine. We see it over and over that people replay the family patterns, intergenerational family patterns. Are all those emotional defenses from letting someone in? But we didn’t realize it cause as kids, we see one perspective. And then how while do you trust others? Anima is psychiatrist Carl Jung’s term for the feminine part of a man’s personality. (Thus, Stage 1 for the male archetype will often be coupled with Stage 1 for women.) And at times all this energy starts to, uh, possess the ego, which the ego is already negative. There’s something missing. And then the 5th 1 was more real but still projecting onto him. Mm. It’s right here in this moment. They’re templates there were born with them already until the opposite sex parent gives us a lot of information, and we associate the let’s say for a woman the father becomes like their first experience off the animals. You know, we we reject the mothers, you know, stayed home, Mom, we become the professional or we reject the mother never being there for us. We think we know where patterns. What I’m like, I am fighting with myself. Does that mean overreliance on masculine force? He’ll show up in people you know, other people. Ah, it’s mixed up with the shadow because we if you. That emotional template, especially relationships. And so they have an extra skip in there when they’re born to. Obviously we see that, like you say there in both of us, both male and female, but one predominates. It’s a young, even had a hard time defining it, because it’s so we don’t have anything to really, um, kind of relate in a way relate to what it is because it’s beyond our conscious awareness. “When animus and anima meet, the animus draws his sword of power and the anima ejects her poison of illusion and seduction. Just as the anima becomes, through integration, the Eros of consciousness, so the animus becomes a Logos; and in the same way that the anima gives relationship and … If we’re are not aware of, if we if we have it in the unconscious mind, then it’s projected out because that’s the tendency of our mind is we see that we see the world through that emotional template that is built up in our family life. And. The anima and the animus Of all these different and self-regulating systems, the anima/animus are the most important in terms of the ways in which we relate to the opposite sex. I rejected most of my stepfather’s persona and has been my shadow work for sure. And the things that we reject that we say, Oh, you know, that hurt my feelings or or they ignored me. I’m focusing on my kids and there’s either an extreme like one level of Oh my God, I have to have it or I’m gonna, like, die tomorrow or I don’t need it at all. The guy from Thor, You know, Hemsworth there and He’s gorgeous and he’s, you know, rich and loving and kind and everything you’ve ever wanted and or whatever it may be, good looking isn’t important to you and and And Would you push it away if he if the you knew that you wouldn’t get heartbroken? It has to do with what do you identify with in your mother and what do you reject about her? We go deeper in our coach training, so just want to put a shot out. You say it’s a nine year old, right? You can’t transform the ego. It’s right there for you. We like to sit around and we like to analyze. It feels as though you’ve had many, many lifetimes together because you’re really connecting to the eternal part of yourself. Is there any way how to find out what happened? Every living thing wants to reproduce, and they leave its d n a. Light and shadow is built into our individual psyche, and it takes the form of whatever we’re expressing in our conscious life as male or female. It’s always there for you to You’re looking, your animus comes with you and it’s just showing you that What’s in the way of you seeing the divine in yourself? That’s what we’re. Yeah, so we teach our coaches. We can make choices like I want a man whose blah, blah, blah and he has a good job. They were all female until they the DNA switched two male. Well, I like calling it the divine other because it’s really when we truly fall in love. This study focused on the relationship between androgyny and the anima and animus, and the relationships between androgyny and the anima and animus and the dependent variables of individuation, psychosocial development, self-actualization, and self-esteem in women. Universal. Great. You know, uh, that passion that you have for another in let’s when you’re infatuated with someone, you turn it into compassion into ah, more spiritually life. We say I I want to be, like, letting him or I You know, I don’t identify with that. And you talk about when we talk about that. And then also, this is going to be on our podcast as well. You’re in good hands, spk_1:   1:13:18Thanks for the great questions. And, um, it’s just it’s just amazing journey, I hope, uh, if this calls to you, I hope you join us because it’s going to change your life. We grow up. It’s it’s the shadow. Hello mentors, and they’re really the best. What is the emotional template and that emotional template? So when that force, it will connect you to someone who accepts all of you if you accept all of you, so it’s the external conflict is always reflecting the internal conflict. Does it cross fear? The best way to imagine the anima animus is to picture a yin-yang in your mind. Okay. You’re not running away from them anymore. In mythology this aspect of the animus appears as Hermes, messenger of the gods; in dreams he is a helpful guide. Like the anima, the animus is a jealous lover. The people that you’re passionately drawn to are probably the the most powerful way for you to transcend your ego and actually have that self realization that we all want that enlightenment that we all want is actually in the seat of heartache. And so it’s about really being honest with yourself and sitting with Is this really my choice? spk_0:   30:08minutes, a release of emotion because the inhibited the the ego doesn’t inhibit the motion and so they can be passionate and let it go. So they’re all female initially. 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That’s the That’s where you say OK, there’s something here and ah, let me work with this feeling and a lot of times we don’t see it with people that were not attracted to. They become part of who you are, and they give you more energy. The Women of Twelfth Night and Jung’s Animus Theory. Speak to me directly and ask about it. Vs who you know, who you consciously really want. And so when I grew up. Inner life and soul. She regretted it in the end because it was in the wrong order. spk_0:   5:10Well, that’s why people that talk about hormones and biology of love, and that’s sort of taking the magic in the and the spiritually mystical aspects of romantic love. Trust them. But the but unconsciously that anima animus depending on your Miller female forces, you, you know, first of all, connect with the opposite sex because really, truly, if we didn’t have that force, we kind of want to be around her own kind. That basically is the is really the doorway to all the others. But that’s the power of the atom animus. It’s a part of themselves that they’ve been pushing away, not that other person. Like Young said, the best time to do Ah ah, really. Almost all relationships a lot of women don’t realize or men don’t realize, is that they’re pushing themselves away when they get rejected. We were thinking, there’s three things that we want to talk about. When animus and anima meet, the animus draws his sword of power and the anima ejects her poison of illusion and seduction. In dreams Jung said that the animus is more likely to be personified by multiple male figures, while the anima is frequently a single female. You know what I to reject about that? It does require kind of some kind of training where at least some kind of structure that you know, ah, Joseph Campbell said. ( Log Out /  You are in one. Right now, This moment and so all that exists is always this. The animus and Anima are simply the unconscious masculine side of women and the unconscious feminine side of men, according to Carl Jung. We create these conditions to it when we were younger, to protect ourselves or to think, you know, in a way, like we strategized the survival mechanisms and our toolkit to keep us from being trapped or from, you know, had a good intention. But yeah, we kind of you decide which one you are, and there’s four quadrants, and they’re based on the Colby’s attachment styles. It’s not gonna change. The Divine Other – The Anima/Animus in Romantic Relationships, Your Unconscious in Life Coaching | Psychology of Life Coaching Part 1, How to Choose the Right Life Coach Training, Mary Shelley’s Frankenstein – Humans & the God Complex, Symbols of Transformation in the Lord of the Rings, The Dark Knight and the Joker – the Anti-hero Archetype, International Jungian Coaching Association, How your shadow influences your attraction to the opposite sex. And we have a great group already. That that was the function of mythology and ritual was to give us the opportunity to do that. And they have the amazing energy, and we want to get it through the other person. Uh, let’s see that. Yeah, we reject it, but in rejecting it, it doesn’t go anywhere. Keep your boundaries. What is this feeling? And they. Our archetype also dictates how we interact and relate to our partner. And in some of the, uh, Hindu traditions, the shock D and the Shiva shock to being the female principle. You need to go directly to the emotional experience, which means facing your fears right and in simple terms and whatever the fear is of intimacy of love. Yeah. spk_1:   1:7:55Yeah, I was a, uh, shadow. It’s almost like they, they, um, was a bait and switch. Ah, and and you can see it reflected in all of nature. And we do this instinctually remembers Children. And if you think about it socially, that’s what we dio were a woman. And so it fades into the background into the unconscious. Then the unconscious takes the opposite roll the things. It’ll be posted here in the group so you can watch it in our unit section. And it’s not that Oh, I’m a great person and I love myself and I, you know, people like me kind of affirmation. They’re not, for they’re not scaring you. spk_0:   1:4:26Okay, here’s one. Then at age one or two, I met my father and then that had a stepfather. And so we’re born with this force. Yeah, but whatever you resist will persist. So our conscious feminine Ah, we work with our our new system. So we can say that that’s the conscious element. A lot of people think, Oh, this is part of their personality. So yes, it’s very wise. spk_0:   1:00theory organ. Just not have an intellectual understanding. Biological? spk_0:   56:14So ah, for a daughter, would that also play out in the mother wound of the ego? He is adept at putting, in place of the real man, an opinion about him, the exceedingly disputable grounds for … And so it has a spiritual component. I’m gonna end up being a housewife with has no power. Believe Well, you know, use whatever force he needs. Anima is psychiatrist Carl Jung’s term for the feminine part of a man’s personality. They want us to be good, and they want us to follow rules. It’s this deeper self and that’s really I mean, imagine that’s what we really want is we want to transcend our ourselves and become immortal, and we want to have that experience in our life, our own immortality. Um, so, yeah, definitely. It’s it’s part of our journey is to to work with relationships. spk_0:   37:42I would ask them to say, Are they making that decision based on fear? May 04, 2020 Season 2 Episode 9. He might want to do some sports. Men are nurtured and raised to suppress their feminine side to a degree, while women are nurtured and raised to suppress their masculine side to a degree. But it’s really what we decided about who we are for a woman, uh, around that idea. It helps you relate to that part of your psyche in a healthy way, just like a good relationship. So I think a lot of people get stuck, is trying to fix their ego when there’s this whole vast like we talk about the of our psyche and other parts of ourselves that are so much bigger than the ego that we could use on. So it wants to talk it out and we talk about it with our friends, and we’re like, Oh, and Jimmy, you know what he did and we’re rationalizing and your friends are all going, Yeah, you know, that’s it. You might think it’s kind of a self. The second is about doing difficulty. That’s why we feel it when we see people were just projecting it out there so understanding that it’s already here and we always hear Oh, the love is already inside of you, but you have to have a direct experience. We’re just seeing it’s part of having our psyche is alive. So when someone leaves, they’re rejecting something in themselves. How to Work on Your Relationship. Let’s look at your heart ache. Yes. or whatever they want. Get some really great direct work from people who have trained in the process. Stage 1: Female as Mother: He needs a mommy to take care of him. Now that’s always here. We’re going to talk about dreams. When we talked about that, there’s a persona, uh, element of our psyche, which is the mass that we were to other for others then what we don’t accept or we don’t allow, accept about ourselves or think is unacceptable traits in just being a human being. We aren’t connected to our anima animus, that deeper level. spk_1:   1:6:32Yeah, this is a common stake. What do you pushing away? Well, remember you it’s it’s instilled in you already, so it doesn’t mean you don’t have an animus. What can you give insight on that? After that, we were completely transported back to the Garden of Eden. So again we go deep into this work. And I know my all my ah, history and defenses and complexes. Have where do we don’t love ourselves deeply versus ah, I think you know, we make the other person they use that term container. We’re discovering new lands, new treasures in our in our psyche. And how do why There’s something here for me, especially if on a conscious level, you know, Yeah, they’re they’re kind of not, You know that, Not the right. Anima and animus are both characterized by an extraordinary many-sidedness. Just open the door and he’s there and he’s loves you and he’s perfect. Post was not sent - check your email addresses! Does this shed life to how you are currently dating and relating to potential mates? I’m working on my business right now. Anima and animus are both characterized by an extraordinary many-sidedness. 2. But But we have this desire for love that we can’t control. But I want to tell you the voice never goes away. But it’s this anima animus, this energy that we carry, so it’s not that it can be found. biological sex in the conscious ego, masculine qualities repressed due to cultural pressures and norms form a complementary contrasexual (male) personality in the unconscious. spk_1:   44:51Well, if we drop the masculine feminine no, all we’re doing is relating to the other. spk_1:   1:1:59do you Oh, yeah, you’re experiencing it. And you might have to sit with it for a while and and go into your heart and ask, Is this really my choice? spk_0:   49:12And you know, it’s interesting if you if there is past lives and we believe in past lives, that love is what we carry through the lives, and it’s not in that person. Jung’s animus theory postulates that, while women generally identify with their. And we analyze and a man he doesn’t put it into words. And it’s so those falling in love. Stage 2 Male and Stage 2 Female partnership is the iconic Alpha Male/ Trophy Wife couple. spk_1:   17:12In the context, in the context of this, this incredible universal force that’s compelling us to move towards another than divine other. Didn’t mean to post my question three times. spk_0:   7:40Yes, I do want to step back, though, and just define anima animus so people can have that framework. And as an adult. Let’s look and not from a fixing place but a self awareness and help the person see, like, kind of late, lift the veil of of ah, misperception and see what’s really there. Let’s see. Animus, is the masculine part of a woman’s personality. They kind of they can. We are often told that happiness and love resides within, but rarely do we find it. We’re talking about the anima animus, spk_1:   0:26because we like to talk about Complicated. Animus, is the masculine part of a woman’s personality. So it’s our Little Souls Church on Saturdays. You know, I think personal development has had a bad rap. That sense of yourself that grounded nous, you know, that’s invaluable. Nor that infatuation is We think the other person is divine and it’s a misperception, and we fall into that shiny little beautiful ah you know, image of that person and their their bright and wonderful and and then eventually they let us down there. The animus in women isn't so much a soul figure, as the anima is in men. What are you making that mean about you? It’s like What is that? Can this be possible? spk_0:   32:15egos terrified of real love, because it loses because you lose yourself with someone that is a battle inside, saying Hold back, give up too much, right? And so be once you’re aware of that, then you connect with the inner Adam, where we call the inner Adam or the animus, uh, in dreams. As you do your shadow work and you integrate the shadow, meaning you accept a lot of things that you pushed away, and then you had looked at in your childhood and your past. And we’ll see you next week. But the target was the love of horses with the force was always with me, but the ego was is always just kind of way. But it’s you use that kind of beloved feeling that, um to put compel you to transcend the fear of being trapped in a relationship are being trapped in the wrong one. Anima, Animus, and the Magical Other. We have this conscious mind. The mother type would would want to take care of someone, uh, who’s injured? This isn’t something what was formed as we grow up, it’s always there, and it’s kind of a force that we tap into when we fall in love. But until you do the shot of working, really, don’t you really think you you think you got it all figured out and ah, then you’re like, Oh, it was like I remember the moment I said, Oh my God, I am doing this to myself. spk_0:   0:03Welcome to Creative Mind Living a podcast for personal growth based on the works of Carl Young, neuroscience and Eastern philosophies. So if you could choose, I’ll be alone. Okay, the guy at the door. "Marriage as a Psychological Relationship" (1925) In CW 17: ... ["Anima and Animus," CW 7, par. Or let’s say the the individual ation process, which wells up from within, is always prompting us to do the work. spk_0:   1:13:30next Saturday. Specifically, the anima is thought to be the feminine part of a man’s soul, and the animus refers to the masculine part of a female’s soul. It opens up the door into that deeper process that we call a psyche. You had. spk_0:   52:14Yeah, yeah. And, you know, I remember when I was single I used to always go for the guy that I couldn’t have. As they say. And then the difficult one, I would say, is the shadow. Great question. So for ah psychologically, of where psychological beings were spiritually beings, and so it has to mean something or we have to come to terms with it at that level, new at those levels and this at the psychological emotional level and in it at this spiritually level. You’re not pushing away your past history, but your understanding how it contributed to who you are. So whenever we feel a strong attraction to someone, even if they’re wrong, it’s what we call the trigger. So it just depends on you and where you’re at, um, for a daughter, OK, that if we had an absent father. If you don’t do shadow work, you end up playing out those patterns. T know if it ’ s animus theory postulates that, too journey in life and anima and animus in relationships partner stage:. 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